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Have you ever thought about the fact that most men mostly try to meet women at night? It’s like, when the sun goes down, the vampire bats come out – and so do the MEN. It’s a wonder that hot women venture out at all after dark sometimes.

Seriously, though, think about this. I remember a phrase that David Deangelo coined when he said that women have their “Bitch Shields” up at times – and mostly, at night, when they are likely to get hit on in any club they go to. On the flip side, what if by hitting on girls during the DAY – you had a better chance of scoring some action? Or at least – a PHONE NUMBER?

So – I am going to lay some dating tips for men on you here. Day Game, brother. Try reversing your tactics, and try instead to meet women during the daytime. It works great – and let me explain why to you.

First of all, during the day – the “Bitch Shield” as David Deangelo says, is not nearly so thick as it is at night. Since most men do not normally meet women during the day, the women are not expecting it.

So how do you actually meet women during the day? Try using some creative techniques. Use some great openers, like my personal favorite – the “Dairy-Mart Knockover”. Tell her in a very “overly secretive” voice that you and your buddy were robbing the Dairy Mart down the street and your get-away driver flaked on you, so if she can drive, you need her and you will give her 2% of the take. She will of course start to argue with you about her percentage.

OR – I heard this one from Oliver when David Deangelo interviewed him in 2008 in the Interviews With Dating Gurus (if you have never listened to them, they are a great resource for dating tips for men)… Oliver would write out a bunch of index cards the night before he went to the mall to meet women. He would write on them something like, “Hey, I saw you and I think you are adorable. I would love to have a cup of coffee with you sometime, if you are single, please call me…” Then – Oliver would drop the index card behind her, and tell her she dropped it (folded up of course) and give it to her and just walk away.

So – you can totally change your game if you want to learn how to meet girls during the day and dramatically improve your success with women and dating.